About
Hilary Borison is a grief counselor based in the Palo Alto area who teaches within the Insight Meditation Center lineage. She is a graduate of the Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher Training through the UCSD Center for Mindfulness and the Chaplaincy Program through the Sati Center. Borison has been a student of Gil Fronsdal since 2004 and is currently enrolled in the Dharma Mentoring Training Program at Insight Meditation Center. She teaches in the Dharma Bodhis middle school program and co-facilitates the Women's Circle of Mindfulness.
Teaching focus
Borison's core teaching draws on mindfulness of breathing, open awareness, noting practice. The frame is the insight tradition transmitted through teachers like Mahasi Sayadaw and U Ba Khin into the West, but the language stays plain. Borison doesn't lecture from height. The talks tend to think alongside whatever's actually present in the room. Recurring themes include sati, sampajanna, and the three characteristics. None of those get presented as abstract ideas. They're worked into the body, into ethics, into how a practitioner shows up in family life or at work, so that the dharma stops feeling like a separate compartment. There's a steady invitation in the talks to keep practice human-sized. Sit when you can, return when you've drifted, and trust that small consistent attention does more over the years than dramatic breakthroughs. Format-wise, Borison teaches in in-person, group, and the tone moves easily between guided sittings, dharma talks, and Q&A. Questions tend to get answered the way they were asked, without being reframed into something cleaner. That alone tells you a lot about how the room feels.
Background
Hilary Borison is a grief counselor based in the Palo Alto area who teaches within the Insight Meditation Center lineage. She is a graduate of the Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher Training through the UCSD Center for Mindfulness and the Chaplaincy Program through the Sati Center. Borison has been a student of Gil Fronsdal since 2004 and is currently enrolled in the Dharma Mentoring Training Program at Insight Meditation Center. She teaches in the Dharma Bodhis middle school program and co-facilitates the Women's Circle of Mindfulness. Hilary Borison is a recent graduate of the Mindful Self-Compassion Teacher Training through the UCSD Center for Mindfulness, and a graduate of the Chaplaincy Program through the Sati Center, applying both in her work as a grief counselor with Kara in Palo Alto. She is currently enrolled in the Dharma Mentoring Training Program at IMC and serves a mentor in the Eightfold Path Program. Hilary teaches the Dharma Bodhis middle school program, and co-facilitates the Women's Circle of Mindfulness. She has been a student of Gil Fronsdal's since 2004. Borison teaches across several communities, including Insight Meditation Center, Insight Retreat Center. That work sits within the insight tradition transmitted through teachers like Mahasi Sayadaw and U Ba Khin into the West, and the recurring concerns of Borison's teaching, ethical foundation, steady attention, and the slow softening of habitual reactivity, echo the older texts without sounding distant from a 21st-century practitioner's life. What stands out across Borison's talks isn't a single technique but a steadying tone. Practice is treated as something built slowly, in ordinary life, with care. There's room for the difficulties practitioners actually bring into the room, grief, restlessness, the body's complaints, family obligations, and the encouragement is consistent without being pushy.
Lineage
Borison teaches within the insight tradition transmitted through teachers like Mahasi Sayadaw and U Ba Khin into the West. Current affiliations include Insight Meditation Center, Insight Retreat Center. The lineage shows up less in titles than in the way Borison talks about practice, with steady reference to the older Buddhist vocabulary while keeping the door open for people who've never read a sutra. Whether that framing lands as monastic or lay depends on the specific talk, but the consistent thread is care for the form without letting the form become the point.
What to expect
Sitting with Borison, you can expect grounded instruction in mindfulness of breathing, with space to ask questions and bring whatever's actually showing up in your practice. Group settings have a community feel without becoming social. People sit, listen, and check in. The teaching voice is steady. Borison won't push you past your edge, and there's a clear preference for slow, sustainable practice over breakthrough chasing. Bring a notebook if you like, or don't. Either way, you'll be met where you are.
